“Your Body is a Car” (Wiser Next Week: On Health)

Your Body is a Car (Wiser Next Week: On Health)
Your car is your body, you are the mind.

About the Wiser Next Week Series: These entries will involve posting my book, Wiser Next Week, chapter by chapter, freely available to the public. Additionally, I’ll be recounting a story about something I’ve learned based on the chapter’s topic since the months that have past when the book was published in December 2018.

Disclaimer: I must make a disclaimer before the start of this one. Me being a young person, I’ve never had to deal with any serious health issues. I’ll scrounge up a story though and try my best to make it relatable.

I remember last July when I was in Lao, an obscure, landlocked country in South East Asia. I had no idea I would end up being in the country. Quite honestly even when I was trekking through the region I had no idea the country existed.

I never learned a thing about it when I was going through school, this is in spite of me being a history fanatic and how I loved learning about military history growing up. Lao, for those that don’t know, was dragged into US-Vietnam military conflict in the 1960’s into the 70’s. Even when I was visiting Vietnam’s numerous war museums, there was no mention of the country.

The reason I was in Lao was because I needed to leave Thailand on a “visa run” to get a work visa during my time as an English teacher. This little adventure deserves its own article for a later time.

The point is, I did a lot of walking in Lao. A lot. And it was scorching hot & sunny. What I decided to wear was a v-neck t shirt with jeans. Once in a while I would wear a scarf.

I have sweat spots all over my chest because of how hot it is. This is Vientiane, capital of Lao’s People Democratic Republic.

I only spent a long weekend there, by time I got back to Bangkok, one of my students commented,

“Teacher you got so dark it looks very cool.”

I thought to myself, “it may look cool to you sunshine, it’s ain’t no party for me right now.”

I got more then just dark, my skin was ichy and peeling off.


Up until that point, I lived under the assumption that only caucasians could get sunburned and since I’m of Asian decent. It couldn’t happen to me.


Since that time has passed, I’ve integrated some South East Asian fashion into my wardrobe. Whenever it’s the slightest hint of sunny, I wear arm sleeves. It was always a curiosity to me when I saw the local men wearing them. I didn’t want skin cancer, so the clothing accessory has stuck with me even after leaving SE Asia.

This is Tlaquepaque, Jalisco, Mexico. I’m the only person that wears arm sleeves here. I keep almost all my skin covered since that incident in Lao.

My foolishness of getting sunburnt is a hard lesson learned that needn’t have been that way if I had practiced what I preached when I abbreviated the words of Karl Pillemer in his book 30 Lessons for Living, here’s what he said:

Your health decisions start with your mindset and make their outward appearance in your choices in diet, exercise, and rest. While contemplating this, keep in mind that death is not the great detriment to your pursuit of happiness. It’s chronic disease.

Making the wrong decisions could leave you suffering from a host of ailments in your later years. Do you really want to spend the last few decades of your life confined to a hospital bed?

Skin cancer is no joke. It doesn’t matter how young you are, if you abuse and neglect your body like I did you do nothing but take an unnecessary risk. And now, I see a young person’s body like a new car. Here’s what I mean:

Out of gas, no problem, just pull on back to your local McDonalds and look for where they dump their old french fry oil (if you have a diesel car, if its gasoline I think you get the point).

Open that dumpster up with all that greasy goodness inside, pick out the food bits/trash bags (if you feel like it) and fill ‘er up. Your car will run just fine.

Until it doesn’t. Sooner or later that new car will have it’s engine clogged and need an oil change. And then another, then another, until it prematurely dies altogether.

Back to the analogy, even if you have yourself a new car, you got to be careful with it and treat it right. As you only get that one car, in order for it to get you to where you want to go, you got to give it the right type of gas.

And if you’re ever in Lao, do yourself a favor and protect your skin.

Here’s an interesting Youtube video on how to maintain good health

Your health decisions start with your mindset and make their outward appearance in your choices in diet, exercise, and rest.  Karl Pillemer design by Kingston S Lim

Here is the “On Health” chapter of Wiser Next Week. Take it and implement it into your own life.

Previous Chapters

“I Didn’t Know How to Do Laundry” Wiser Next Week Intro

“The Spray & Pray Teacher” Wiser Next Week: On Emotions

“Show Them Your Greatness” Wiser Next Week: On Fear

“Psychological Ownership” Wiser Next Week: On Loyalty

“Strategically Smile to Get What You Want” (Wiser Next Week: On Happiness)

22 thoughts on ““Your Body is a Car” (Wiser Next Week: On Health)

  1. Compelling expression of a young man on a personal pilgrimage. This is how we learn what it means to be truly alive. We endure sometimes hardship, sometimes adventure, and discover in the sand along the path bits of wisdom more valuable than gold.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Pingback: “The Gift of Time and Age”(Wiser Next Week: On Aging & Death) – Kingston S. Lim

  3. Pingback: “Project Your Life 5 Years Ahead” (Wiser Next Week: On Regrets) – Kingston S. Lim

  4. Pingback: “You’re Doing it Wrong” (Wiser Next Week: On Mistakes and Failures) – Kingston S. Lim

  5. Pingback: “Align Principles With Action” (Wiser Next Week: On Goals and Persistence) – Kingston S. Lim

  6. Pingback: Action is Courage (Wiser Next Week: On Persistence) – Kingston S. Lim

  7. Pingback: ”See Things As They Are, Not How You Wish Them To Be” (Wiser Next Week: On Perception) – Kingston S. Lim

  8. Pingback: “Grab It By The Reins”(Wiser Next Week: On Opportunities) – Kingston S. Lim

  9. Pingback: “Ask And You Shall Receive”(Wiser Next Week: On Finding Solutions) – Kingston S. Lim

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s