
Below are my personal notes of Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. These highlights were what I used to write my personal development book, Wiser Next Week, a condensation of many different self improvement books
The Mindset:
- Becoming is better than being
- Potential: One’s capacity to develop their skills with effort and coaching overtime
- The fixed mindset identifies failure as an identity (“I’m a failure”) rather than an action (“I’ve failed”)
- Failure is painful but it doesn’t define you, its an obstacle to be solved and learned from
- Know that besting people doesn’t necessarily equate to improvement
Ability and Accomplishment:
- Just because somethings come easier to some doesn’t mean others can’t do it better with concentrated effort
- Talent praised individuals are burdened with the pressure of effortless success which kills enjoyment and in turn, effort
- Effort praised individuals love solving problems and aren’t afraid to fail (as it doesn’t define them)
- Take praise as praise of effort, rather than praise of talent
- As people fear the pain of lost status (being talented) through trying and failing more than they desire the pleasure of further success, praise of talent diminishes effort
- See success as giving your best effort and learning and improving along the way and failure as an informative wake up call to change tactics
- Talent praised individuals have great difficulty adapting if their image is threatened. They’d rather lie, cheat and steal than admit that they aren’t as gifted as first thought
Characteristics of the Fixed Mindset
- Weapons: Blame, excuses, silencing of critics/rivals. Intimidate rather than learn
- Create an environment where people fear judgment rather then being encouraged to build, grow, learn
Relations With Others:
- Don’t praise the person, praise effort when true effort was made
- Avoid praise that places judgement of intelligence/talent instead of appreciation of their accomplishments made through practice, study, and perseverance
- Judgement incidents resentment and eventual rebellion. This leads to the cease of effort in a vain attempt to end judgement, this in turn leads to self sabotage.
Fixed Mindset: Intelligence is Static | Growth Mindset: Intelligence can be developed | |
Challenges: | Avoided | Embraced |
Obstacles: | Become Defensive, give up easily | Persist |
Effort: | Seen as fruitless | Seen as the path to mastery |
Criticism: | Ignored | Weighed & Accounted |
Success of Others: | Threatened by Others’ Success | Learn from and seek inspiration through other’s success |
Result: | Hits a glass ceiling amd limits potential | Ever higher achievement & success |
If these brief notes, peaked your interest in Mindset the New Psychology of Success , you can check it out on Amazon here.
And be sure to check out my book, Wiser Next Week.
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Dweck’s book is a must-read for educators. I use its principles in our freshman seminars at my college.
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